Somizi Mhlongo Opens Up About Being Polygamous and Pansexual
South African media personality Somizi Mhlongo has shared insights into his evolving understanding of love, relationships, and his sexuality.
In a candid interview with TshisaLIVE, he revealed that with age, he has realised that he is 80%-90% polygamous and pansexual.
A Journey of Self-Discovery
Somizi Mhlongo reflected on his journey of self-discovery, sharing how age has brought a deeper understanding of his identity. He revealed that he identifies as possibly 80%-90% polygamous and pansexual, embracing a life of exploration and personal freedom.
“With age, you realise certain things, you discover yourself. I’ve realised I am possibly 80%-90% polygamous and I am pansexual. So I’m exploring. I am just living my life. I discovered that later in my life and I am enjoying it. I am not committed to anyone, I don’t want anyone to commit to me.”
He further emphasized that this self-awareness has led him to enjoy life on his own terms. Somizi explained that he is not currently committed to anyone and doesn’t want anyone to feel obligated to commit to him.
“I’ve reached a stage in my life where I believe no-one should own anyone, no-one should control anyone. People must do what they want to do, as long as it’s in agreement with the partnership,” he said.
Love and Relationships: A New Perspective
Addressing his current relationship status, Somizi clarified that while he is mingling, he has not found love again.
“I haven’t found love again. I am just mingling to mingle. I’m just having fun. There’s no love. I am in relationships,” he said.
However, he remains open to the idea of marriage, stating that it is still “on the cards.” Somizi shared his admiration for the concept of marriage, saying,
“I love the concept of marriage. To be honest, I’m more in love with the wedding than the marriage, but I understand the marriage part.”
The Future of Love and Partnership
When describing the type of relationship he envisions for the future, Somizi expressed his preference for an “honest relationship” over an “open relationship.”
“An honest relationship means we have a conversation before anything happens, and we have to be in agreement,” he said.
He also highlighted the importance of communication and transparency, even when feelings change.
“Sometimes I wake not feeling the same way I felt yesterday about you, and I must be open and honest with it.”